Your pet may not be filing taxes or stuck in traffic, but stress? They know it just the same. Loud thunderstorms, visitors, vet visits, a moved litter box — it doesn’t take much to shake your furry companion’s peace of mind.
And while you might unwind with a glass of wine and a face mask, your pet needs a different set of tools.
Let’s go over how to recognize the signs of stress in pets, understand its effects, and introduce safe, natural ways to help them calm down and feel secure.
Recognizing the Signs of Pet Stress
Pets can’t tell us they’re overwhelmed, but they absolutely show us. Changes in body language, behavior, or appetite can all signal that something’s off.
Common signs of stress in dogs include excessive barking, whining, panting, pacing, licking objects or themselves, sudden accidents in the house, destructive behavior, aggression, and changes in sleep patterns.
In cats, look for excessive grooming, hissing, hiding, dilated pupils, avoiding the litter box, rapid breathing, or shedding more than usual.
In both dogs and cats, signs of stress may include vomiting, diarrhea, loss of appetite or overeating, flattened ears, hiding, making themselves appear smaller, or general restlessness.
If your usually chill companion is suddenly redecorating the house with their teeth or giving the litter box the cold shoulder, it’s not just a phase. Something’s probably up.
The Impact of Stress and Anxiety on Pets
When an animal feels threatened or unsafe, their adrenal glands release stress hormones like cortisol. This is part of the fight-or-flight response, which is helpful in short bursts but not so great when it turns into a long-term guest.
Chronic stress can throw off nearly every system in your pet’s body. It weakens their immune system, slows healing, and makes them more prone to infections. Basically, it’s like leaving the front door open for every bug in town.
Stress can also show up on the outside. Itching, scratching, and dull or thinning coats are common signs your pet’s stress is making a mess of their skin. And let’s not forget the digestive drama. Stress and upset stomachs go together like cats and cardboard boxes.
For pets with existing conditions like arthritis, allergies, or heart disease, stress can act like fuel on the fire. Research in veterinary behavioral medicine has confirmed that stress isn’t just a side effect, it can be a driving factor in overall health.
Natural Stress Relief Techniques for Pets
Fortunately, your pet doesn’t need a meditation app or a journal to find a little peace. Many natural techniques are simple, safe, and easy to work into your daily routine.
Create a Safe Space

Set up a low-traffic zone your pet can retreat to when they’re feeling overwhelmed. Think of it as their personal sanctuary — quiet, familiar, and stocked with comforting scents. For dogs, this might be a soft bed tucked into a quiet corner. For cats, try a covered hideaway or a perch where they can keep watch from above.
Add in a few favorites: a familiar blanket, a well-loved toy, or something that smells like you — just not your $200 throw pillow. Dim lighting and limited foot traffic will help them feel secure and less overstimulated.
Stick to a Routine
Life is unpredictable, but your pet doesn’t want it to be. Consistent mealtimes, walks, and play sessions help them feel secure and grounded. Even just knowing when dinner is coming can provide a much-needed sense of stability. Bonus: fewer guilt trips from the food bowl!
Make Time for Physical Activity
Exercise isn’t just good for your pet’s body, it’s a major mood booster too. Physical activity helps regulate stress hormones and burn off nervous energy. Whether it’s a walk, a game of tug, or a laser-pointer chase, movement can transform an anxious mess into a relaxed puddle of fur.
Use Desensitization and Counterconditioning
If your pet has specific triggers - like thunderstorms, vet visits, or the terrifying clink of nail clippers - you can help by introducing those stimuli gradually and pairing them with positive experiences. A little patience, a lot of treats, and a calm tone can work wonders over time.
Use the Power of Touch
Gentle petting and massage can help reduce anxiety by triggering the release of calming hormones. Bonus: it’s a great way to bond, check for lumps or skin issues, and remind your pet that you are, in fact, their favorite human.
Try Natural Calming Herbs
Some herbs, like chamomile, valerian root, and passionflower, have been shown to support relaxation in animals when used appropriately. If you’re considering a natural supplement for your pet, always make sure it’s species-safe and formulated specifically for pets. And if you’re tempted to share your own herbal tea blend, just remember, your cat didn’t ask for chamomile and lavender soup.
Enrich Their Environment
Boredom can look an awful lot like anxiety. Keep things interesting with rotating toys, puzzle feeders, and interactive games. For cats, elevated perches, window views, and hunt-style play mimic natural behaviors and help them stay sharp. For dogs, nose work and hide-and-seek games offer healthy challenges.
Know When to Call the Vet
If your pet’s anxiety isn’t improving, seems to be getting worse, or starts affecting their daily life, it’s time to get expert advice. Behavioral changes can sometimes signal underlying medical issues, and your vet can help determine what’s going on beneath the surface.
Professional input is especially important before starting any new supplement or behavior program. A tailored plan can make all the difference.
Build a Calmer, Healthier Life Together
At Nature Pet Store, we specialize in natural wellness products to help your pet feel their best, inside and out. From gentle herbal supplements to skin-soothing topicals, we offer thoughtfully selected remedies that support your pet’s comfort, resilience, and overall well-being.
Visit Nature Pet Store to explore our collection and find natural solutions that fit your pet’s lifestyle.